Are any of you wise and understanding? Show that your actions are good with a humble lifestyle that comes from wisdom. However, if you have bitter jealousy and selfish ambition in your heart, then stop bragging and living in ways that deny the truth. This is not the wisdom that comes down from above. Instead, it is from the earth, natural and demonic. Wherever there is jealousy and selfish ambition, there is disorder and everything that is evil. What of the wisdom from above? First, it is pure, and then peaceful, gentle, obedient, filled with mercy and good actions, fair, and genuine. Those who make peace sow the seeds of justice by their peaceful acts. (James 3:13-18, CEB)
If you are jealous of others and selfish in the ways you do things.
If you only think about yourself and what is in it for you, then you are living in ways that deny the truth.
The truth shows love for all. It does not stop to see if the fit the mold or follow all the things I want them to, it loves.
Live in the truth and love like Jesus.
Loving People. Loving God.
aSacredRebel 
Yes. Hard truth but real truth