Therefore, I have a request for the elders among you. (I ask this as a fellow elder and a witness of Christ’s sufferings, and as one who shares in the glory that is about to be revealed.) I urge the elders: 2 Like shepherds, tend the flock of God among you. Watch over it. Don’t shepherd because you must, but do it voluntarily for God. Don’t shepherd greedily, but do it eagerly. 3 Don’t shepherd by ruling over those entrusted to your care, but become examples to the flock. 4 And when the chief shepherd appears, you will receive an unfading crown of glory. 5 In the same way, I urge you who are younger: accept the authority of the elders. And everyone, clothe yourselves with humility toward each other. God stands against the proud, but he gives favor to the humble. (1 Peter 5:1-5, CEB)
Listen to those who are trying to help you and guide you. God will have people be in your life to guide you and help you. Sometimes they maybe leaders and sometimes they maybe random people.
All people play a part in the body of Christ and do things for everyone else. We all play a part and need to do that so God’s plan will unfold as God designed.
Accept what God has given to you and allow God to work through your life.