The apostles and the brothers and sisters throughout Judea heard that even the Gentiles had welcomed God’s word. When Peter went up to Jerusalem, the circumcised believers criticized him. They accused him, “You went into the home of the uncircumcised and ate with them!” Step-by-step, Peter explained what had happened. “I was in the city of Joppa praying when I had a visionary experience. In my vision, I saw something like a large linen sheet being lowered from heaven by its four corners. It came all the way down to me. As I stared at it, wondering what it was, I saw four-legged animals—including wild beasts—as well as reptiles and wild birds. I heard a voice say, ‘Get up, Peter! Kill and eat!’ I responded, ‘Absolutely not, Lord! Nothing impure or unclean has ever entered my mouth.’ The voice from heaven spoke a second time, ‘Never consider unclean what God has made pure.’ This happened three times, then everything was pulled back into heaven. At that moment three men who had been sent to me from Caesarea arrived at the house where we were staying. The Spirit told me to go with them even though they were Gentiles. These six brothers also went with me, and we entered that man’s house. He reported to us how he had seen an angel standing in his house and saying, ‘Send to Joppa and summon Simon, who is known as Peter. He will tell you how you and your entire household can be saved.’ When I began to speak, the Holy Spirit fell on them, just as the Spirit fell on us in the beginning. I remembered the Lord’s words: ‘John baptized with water, but you will be baptized with the Holy Spirit.’ If God gave them the same gift he gave us who believed in the Lord Jesus Christ, then who am I? Could I stand in God’s way?” Once the apostles and other believers heard this, they calmed down. They praised God and concluded, “So then God has enabled Gentiles to change their hearts and lives so that they might have new life.” (Acts 11:1-18, CEB)
Who is welcome?
Who sets the rules for who is welcome?
Well, that really depends on the group. There are some groups that have guidelines for who can be a member, there are fraternities, which are usually groups of males, and sororities, which are usually females. There are some fraternities that include both male and female, so sometimes the rules change.
But this is about who is welcome in God’s kingdom and who sets the rules. And in some churches, gatherings of God’s people, they say everyone is welcome but not every action. Which usually means if you are a part of the LGBTQIA2S+ community you really aren’t welcome.
In the above vision we see Peter get the lesson of anything God has made we can not say is unclean. We do not get to decide who is in and who is out, it is not up to our guidelines or rules. It is about God.
And when it comes to who is welcome I like to default to this statement by Drew Tucker. “I use “everyone is welcome but not everything” and then delineate clearly that racism, homophobia, xenophobia and the like aren’t welcome. If you’re not willing to try and give those up, come back when you are.”
Hate isn’t welcome. God created and it is not our place to judge another because they don’t fit our box.
Loving People. Loving God.