Back door friends…

20130625-074653.jpgTherefore remember that at one time you Gentiles in the flesh, called the uncircumcision by what is called the circumcision, which is made in the flesh by hands— remember that you were at that time separated from Christ, alienated from the commonwealth of Israel and strangers to the covenants of promise, having no hope and without God in the world. But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far off have been brought near by the blood of Christ. For he himself is our peace, who has made us both one and has broken down in his flesh the dividing wall of hostility by abolishing the law of commandments expressed in ordinances, that he might create in himself one new man in place of the two, so making peace, and might reconcile us both to God in one body through the cross, thereby killing the hostility. And he came and preached peace to you who were far off and peace to those who were near. For through him we both have access in one Spirit to the Father. So then you are no longer strangers and aliens, but you are fellow citizens with the saints and members of the household of God, built on the foundation of the apostles and prophets, Christ Jesus himself being the cornerstone, in whom the whole structure, being joined together, grows into a holy temple in the Lord. In him you also are being built together into a dwelling place for God by the Spirit. (Ephesians 2:11-22 ESV)

Once we were far of, we were not a part of the circumcised, and were not a part of the hope…

Do you always feel like you are filled with hope?

Life comes at us hard and we it is really easy to get bogged down in the day in and day out tasks in front of us and lose track of the bigger picture. You see we have hope through the promise that God made to Abraham, in the offspring. Jesus has come and bridged the chasm that separated us from the Father. Jesus made us not strangers or aliens, but part of the family.

We are no longer people who have to knock on the door or ring the bell, but we can open the door and walk right in. We know where the key is, or the code to the garage door. We are a part, we belong. And that is the hope. When everything else in life is falling apart we have the best gift we could ever have by being accepted into the family of God. We are now all apart of the building that is, and the body of Christ…

Remember when it seems all hope is lost, remember you can always go to God’s house and walk right in the back door!

stumble..

For the word of the cross is folly to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the power of God. For it is written, “I will destroy the wisdom of the wise, and the discernment of the discerning I will thwart.” Where is the one who is wise? Where is the scribe? Where is the debater of this age? Has not God made foolish the wisdom of the world? For since, in the wisdom of God, the world did not know God through wisdom, it pleased God through the folly of what we preach to save those who believe. For Jews demand signs and Greeks seek wisdom, but we preach Christ crucified, a stumbling block to Jews and folly to Gentiles, but to those who are called, both Jews and Greeks, Christ the power of God and the wisdom of God. For the foolishness of God is wiser than men, and the weakness of God is stronger than men. For consider your calling, brothers: not many of you were wise according to worldly standards, not many were powerful, not many were of noble birth. But God chose what is foolish in the world to shame the wise; God chose what is weak in the world to shame the strong; God chose what is low and despised in the world, even things that are not, to bring to nothing things that are, so that no human being might boast in the presence of God. And because of him you are in Christ Jesus, who became to us wisdom from God, righteousness and sanctification and redemption, so that, as it is written, Let the one who boasts, boast in the Lord. (1 Corinthians 1:18-31 ESV)

What happens when you trip over something? There you are walking down the street and your foot catches on something… Do you keep walking or do you stop and look back to see what you tripped on?

Most people will look back to see what they tripped over.

And those who think themselves wise and learned think that anything they do not understand is foolishness… We want to think that we have it all together and know all we need to…

What we need to do is let go of our knowledge and our pride and let God have control. Only when we let Him have control will we not stumble and be a beacon of hope for the world!

You Are More ~ Tenth Avenue North

This song reminds me of what Jesus has done for each of us, as He did for the man bound by “Legion”.

It is not about what you have done, but about what’s been done for you!

Hello my name is…

20130622-215133.jpgThen they sailed to the country of the Gerasenes, which is opposite Galilee. When Jesus had stepped out on land, there met him a man from the city who had demons. For a long time he had worn no clothes, and he had not lived in a house but among the tombs. When he saw Jesus, he cried out and fell down before him and said with a loud voice, What have you to do with me, Jesus, Son of the Most High God? I beg you, do not torment me. For he had commanded the unclean spirit to come out of the man. (For many a time it had seized him. He was kept under guard and bound with chains and shackles, but he would break the bonds and be driven by the demon into the desert.) Jesus then asked him, What is your name? And he said, Legion, for many demons had entered him. And they begged him not to command them to depart into the abyss. Now a large herd of pigs was feeding there on the hillside, and they begged him to let them enter these. So he gave them permission. Then the demons came out of the man and entered the pigs, and the herd rushed down the steep bank into the lake and were drowned. When the herdsmen saw what had happened, they fled and told it in the city and in the country. Then people went out to see what had happened, and they came to Jesus and found the man from whom the demons had gone, sitting at the feet of Jesus, clothed and in his right mind, and they were afraid. And those who had seen it told them how the demon-possessed man had been healed. Then all the people of the surrounding country of the Gerasenes asked him to depart from them, for they were seized with great fear. So he got into the boat and returned. The man from whom the demons had gone begged that he might be with him, but Jesus sent him away, saying, Return to your home, and declare how much God has done for you. And he went away, proclaiming throughout the whole city how much Jesus had done for him. (Luke 8:26-39 ESV)

I read a commentary this week about the sad part of this story is the man’s answer to Jesus when He asks him what his name is.

The man does not respond Frank, James, Joeseph, Allan, Henry, or any other name, but he answered Legion, because he is defined by what has taken control of his life. He is no longer who he was but has become the very thing that controls him. And this is something we do to know in our age do we?

You see we have this today as well. People are stil defined by who they were. Alcoholics, drug addicts, sex offenders, and the like are defined by their life and the thing that controls them. We are all in that same boat. When we are alone we think about what we have done and how we are kept from God. We define ourselves by the very thing that are has freed us from. Jesus healed the demoniac and released him from Legion and He will also release you from the very thing that holds you captive.

Remember that we have all sinned and fall short of the glory of God. But we are also all set free by Jesus, released from our past failures, released to our future in Him.

Your name is Child of God, received at your baptism, so live out your baptismal promise. Love deeply as you were loved!

what separates us

Behold, the Lord’s hand is not shortened, that it cannot save, or his ear dull, that it cannot hear; but your iniquities have made a separation between you and your God, and your sins have hidden his face from you so that he does not hear. For your hands are defiled with blood and your fingers with iniquity; your lips have spoken lies; your tongue mutters wickedness. No one enters suit justly; no one goes to law honestly; they rely on empty pleas, they speak lies, they conceive mischief and give birth to iniquity. They hatch adders’ eggs; they weave the spider’s web; he who eats their eggs dies, and from one that is crushed a viper is hatched. Their webs will not serve as clothing; men will not cover themselves with what they make. Their works are works of iniquity, and deeds of violence are in their hands. Their feet run to evil, and they are swift to shed innocent blood; their thoughts are thoughts of iniquity; desolation and destruction are in their highways. The way of peace they do not know, and there is no justice in their paths; they have made their roads crooked; no one who treads on them knows peace. (Isaiah 59:1-8, ESV)

Behold the Lord’s hand is not shortened and His ear is not dull. He can always reach you and hear you…

So when it feels like you are far from Him, why is that?

The psalmist makes it clear “your iniquities have made a separation between you and your God, and your sins have hidden his face from you so that he does not hear.” It is all our doing that moves us away from God. Our nature is what creates the chasm. We are sinners, and that is what God can not be around. Our hands “are defiled with blood and your fingers with iniquity; your lips have spoken lies; your tongue mutters wickedness.” We look out for our own good, and try to make ourselves better than we are. We are looking out for number 2. (Ok really that is number 1, but we are not number 1, we are number 2…) We do things that raise us in stature and the eyes of the public. We do it for business and if we are honest we do it in the church. God sees all of this and this is what is keeping Him from us. Motivation is the key… What motivates you do to what you do, is it sacrificial or is it for your own gain?

But back to our sin… Yes we are all sinners and it can define us, it would be very easy to just write down all of the things we have done wrong and define our selves by this list, but God can and will release us from this list. As the picture above shows us, and Paul told the Romans (8:38-39) “nothing can separate us from the love of God through Christ Jesus.”

Do not be defined by the sin that separates you from God, but allow God to redefine you!

Lousy Leaders Coddle

Dan Rockwell's avatarLeadership Freak

coddling kitten

Coddling leaders are safe; compassionate leaders dangerous.

Coddling, like all leadership behaviors, reflects attitudes about yourself and others. Coddling isn’t compassionate it’s needy, misguided, self-important, and self-propagating.

The more you coddle the more you need to coddle.

Coddlers can’t stand to see others stressed or struggling, but growth and development require both.

Coddling or Compassion:

  1. Coddling disables. Compassion enables.
  2. Coddling rejects. Compassion accepts.
  3. Coddling is doubt. Compassion is trust.
  4. Coddling is short-term and immediate. Compassion takes the long view.
  5. Coddling is about your ability. Compassion is about their capacity.
  6. Codding makes others helpless. Compassion helps less and strengthens more.
  7. Coddling is doing for. Compassion is doing with, often from a distance.
  8. Coddling is walking in front, protecting. Compassion is walking behind, supporting.
  9. Coddling is arrogant, I’m capable and you aren’t. Compassion is humble.
  10. Coddling makes things safe. Compassion lets danger in.

Downside of experience:

It’s easy for you – but…

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Why do I persist?

I was asked yesterday by a friend, “When is it time to give up?”

Now most of you know that I am an ordained pastor in the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America (ELCA) and I have been on leave from call for the past 16 months. I have been diligently seeking where God is calling me to be next. And my friend who has been with me through the rough times while I was serving my previous congregation and had listened to me and helped me through things just asked, “when is it time to give up?” He was not being mean, or trying to tear me down. He was asking a question to get me thinking. And I have been, hence this post.

I told him that I was not ready to give up. But he reminded me that I was a few times we had spoken. And yes it is true, I was in some dark valleys and deep sad places, as I heard over and over again, “we are releasing you…” or “we are not continuing the process with you…” It is hard to hear that you are second best all of the time. So I was there ready to give up, but I haven’t. I haven’t given up, and why?

Well if you really get down to it, aren’t all of us only second best? None of us will ever come in first in life, only God can do that. So why not be second best? Is it hard to always hear that I am not the one for that congregation. Yes and no. It allows me to know that that place is not the place for me. I know that the congregation has done the discernment of working through the process to find the right fit at that time. The congregation for me is out there. And to be chosen by one that is not the right place will only mean this happens again soon.

And through this process, I have my family who loves me and home and a wife who is the best faith partner anyone could ask for. She has supported me and helped me discern where we are going and what we are doing. She is a rock and a true gift that God placed in my life 23 years ago. I believe that God has called me to this and others have told me again and again they see the gifts. So I know it is not time to give up. God has never given up on me, so I’m not giving up on Him.

Know that we are not made right because of our actions, but because God loved us when He shouldn’t have. He loved us when we were too dirty and stained to be around Him, but He came to us any how and loved us as we are, and since He did that for me, I’m not giving up on what I know beyond the shadow of a doubt He has called to.

I found this picture yesterday, and I believe it speaks why I have not given up, nor will I give up until the call is found. And then I won’t give up on leading God’s people to deeper and richer relationships with Him, and each other.

Promise

Brothers and sisters, I give an example from daily life: once a person’s will has been ratified, no one adds to it or annuls it. Now the promises were made to Abraham and to his offspring; it does not say, ‘And to offsprings’, as of many; but it says, ‘And to your offspring’, that is, to one person, who is Christ. My point is this: the law, which came four hundred and thirty years later, does not annul a covenant previously ratified by God, so as to nullify the promise. For if the inheritance comes from the law, it no longer comes from the promise; but God granted it to Abraham through the promise. Why then the law? It was added because of transgressions, until the offspring would come to whom the promise had been made; and it was ordained through angels by a mediator. Now a mediator involves more than one party; but God is one. Is the law then opposed to the promises of God? Certainly not! For if a law had been given that could make alive, then righteousness would indeed come through the law. But the scripture has imprisoned all things under the power of sin, so that what was promised through faith in Jesus Christ might be given to those who believe. (Galatians 3:15-22, NRSV)

I have read this passage of scripture many times like you probably have. I am always struck though how a detail that has always been there now reaches up and slaps me in the face.

We know that we are justified by grace, as a gift and not by following the law. Most of us as Christians get that. It doesn’t matter what rules we follow, it will not get us in the good graces of God, only grace through the faithfulness of Jesus to go to the cross for us can get us there. So why do we get hung up on the rules? Two days ago we talked about rules and how they do not matter to God. So we know the rules do not matter.

And Paul makes that perfectly clear to the Galatians here, by reminding them that God made the promise of an offspring to Abraham, and that this was done four hundred and thirty years before the giving of the law to Moses! Four hundred and thirty years is a long time! And the promise was made that Abraham would be the father of many nations and his people would be God’s people! Because of faith! Not because we did anything to earn it, because we can’t earn it!

Faith is a gift, because we can not see it, we can not explain it, we can not always understand it, we just have faith! God’s grace is big enough to cover all of our questions, just trust that the promise is real, because He has not let us down yet!

Don’t trust in the rules, to be right, trust in the promise, and He will move you to be right!