what separates us

Behold, the Lord’s hand is not shortened, that it cannot save, or his ear dull, that it cannot hear; but your iniquities have made a separation between you and your God, and your sins have hidden his face from you so that he does not hear. For your hands are defiled with blood and your fingers with iniquity; your lips have spoken lies; your tongue mutters wickedness. No one enters suit justly; no one goes to law honestly; they rely on empty pleas, they speak lies, they conceive mischief and give birth to iniquity. They hatch adders’ eggs; they weave the spider’s web; he who eats their eggs dies, and from one that is crushed a viper is hatched. Their webs will not serve as clothing; men will not cover themselves with what they make. Their works are works of iniquity, and deeds of violence are in their hands. Their feet run to evil, and they are swift to shed innocent blood; their thoughts are thoughts of iniquity; desolation and destruction are in their highways. The way of peace they do not know, and there is no justice in their paths; they have made their roads crooked; no one who treads on them knows peace. (Isaiah 59:1-8, ESV)

Behold the Lord’s hand is not shortened and His ear is not dull. He can always reach you and hear you…

So when it feels like you are far from Him, why is that?

The psalmist makes it clear “your iniquities have made a separation between you and your God, and your sins have hidden his face from you so that he does not hear.” It is all our doing that moves us away from God. Our nature is what creates the chasm. We are sinners, and that is what God can not be around. Our hands “are defiled with blood and your fingers with iniquity; your lips have spoken lies; your tongue mutters wickedness.” We look out for our own good, and try to make ourselves better than we are. We are looking out for number 2. (Ok really that is number 1, but we are not number 1, we are number 2…) We do things that raise us in stature and the eyes of the public. We do it for business and if we are honest we do it in the church. God sees all of this and this is what is keeping Him from us. Motivation is the key… What motivates you do to what you do, is it sacrificial or is it for your own gain?

But back to our sin… Yes we are all sinners and it can define us, it would be very easy to just write down all of the things we have done wrong and define our selves by this list, but God can and will release us from this list. As the picture above shows us, and Paul told the Romans (8:38-39) “nothing can separate us from the love of God through Christ Jesus.”

Do not be defined by the sin that separates you from God, but allow God to redefine you!

Lousy Leaders Coddle

Dan Rockwell's avatarLeadership Freak

coddling kitten

Coddling leaders are safe; compassionate leaders dangerous.

Coddling, like all leadership behaviors, reflects attitudes about yourself and others. Coddling isn’t compassionate it’s needy, misguided, self-important, and self-propagating.

The more you coddle the more you need to coddle.

Coddlers can’t stand to see others stressed or struggling, but growth and development require both.

Coddling or Compassion:

  1. Coddling disables. Compassion enables.
  2. Coddling rejects. Compassion accepts.
  3. Coddling is doubt. Compassion is trust.
  4. Coddling is short-term and immediate. Compassion takes the long view.
  5. Coddling is about your ability. Compassion is about their capacity.
  6. Codding makes others helpless. Compassion helps less and strengthens more.
  7. Coddling is doing for. Compassion is doing with, often from a distance.
  8. Coddling is walking in front, protecting. Compassion is walking behind, supporting.
  9. Coddling is arrogant, I’m capable and you aren’t. Compassion is humble.
  10. Coddling makes things safe. Compassion lets danger in.

Downside of experience:

It’s easy for you – but…

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Why do I persist?

I was asked yesterday by a friend, “When is it time to give up?”

Now most of you know that I am an ordained pastor in the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America (ELCA) and I have been on leave from call for the past 16 months. I have been diligently seeking where God is calling me to be next. And my friend who has been with me through the rough times while I was serving my previous congregation and had listened to me and helped me through things just asked, “when is it time to give up?” He was not being mean, or trying to tear me down. He was asking a question to get me thinking. And I have been, hence this post.

I told him that I was not ready to give up. But he reminded me that I was a few times we had spoken. And yes it is true, I was in some dark valleys and deep sad places, as I heard over and over again, “we are releasing you…” or “we are not continuing the process with you…” It is hard to hear that you are second best all of the time. So I was there ready to give up, but I haven’t. I haven’t given up, and why?

Well if you really get down to it, aren’t all of us only second best? None of us will ever come in first in life, only God can do that. So why not be second best? Is it hard to always hear that I am not the one for that congregation. Yes and no. It allows me to know that that place is not the place for me. I know that the congregation has done the discernment of working through the process to find the right fit at that time. The congregation for me is out there. And to be chosen by one that is not the right place will only mean this happens again soon.

And through this process, I have my family who loves me and home and a wife who is the best faith partner anyone could ask for. She has supported me and helped me discern where we are going and what we are doing. She is a rock and a true gift that God placed in my life 23 years ago. I believe that God has called me to this and others have told me again and again they see the gifts. So I know it is not time to give up. God has never given up on me, so I’m not giving up on Him.

Know that we are not made right because of our actions, but because God loved us when He shouldn’t have. He loved us when we were too dirty and stained to be around Him, but He came to us any how and loved us as we are, and since He did that for me, I’m not giving up on what I know beyond the shadow of a doubt He has called to.

I found this picture yesterday, and I believe it speaks why I have not given up, nor will I give up until the call is found. And then I won’t give up on leading God’s people to deeper and richer relationships with Him, and each other.

Promise

Brothers and sisters, I give an example from daily life: once a person’s will has been ratified, no one adds to it or annuls it. Now the promises were made to Abraham and to his offspring; it does not say, ‘And to offsprings’, as of many; but it says, ‘And to your offspring’, that is, to one person, who is Christ. My point is this: the law, which came four hundred and thirty years later, does not annul a covenant previously ratified by God, so as to nullify the promise. For if the inheritance comes from the law, it no longer comes from the promise; but God granted it to Abraham through the promise. Why then the law? It was added because of transgressions, until the offspring would come to whom the promise had been made; and it was ordained through angels by a mediator. Now a mediator involves more than one party; but God is one. Is the law then opposed to the promises of God? Certainly not! For if a law had been given that could make alive, then righteousness would indeed come through the law. But the scripture has imprisoned all things under the power of sin, so that what was promised through faith in Jesus Christ might be given to those who believe. (Galatians 3:15-22, NRSV)

I have read this passage of scripture many times like you probably have. I am always struck though how a detail that has always been there now reaches up and slaps me in the face.

We know that we are justified by grace, as a gift and not by following the law. Most of us as Christians get that. It doesn’t matter what rules we follow, it will not get us in the good graces of God, only grace through the faithfulness of Jesus to go to the cross for us can get us there. So why do we get hung up on the rules? Two days ago we talked about rules and how they do not matter to God. So we know the rules do not matter.

And Paul makes that perfectly clear to the Galatians here, by reminding them that God made the promise of an offspring to Abraham, and that this was done four hundred and thirty years before the giving of the law to Moses! Four hundred and thirty years is a long time! And the promise was made that Abraham would be the father of many nations and his people would be God’s people! Because of faith! Not because we did anything to earn it, because we can’t earn it!

Faith is a gift, because we can not see it, we can not explain it, we can not always understand it, we just have faith! God’s grace is big enough to cover all of our questions, just trust that the promise is real, because He has not let us down yet!

Don’t trust in the rules, to be right, trust in the promise, and He will move you to be right!

Letter of the law…

20130620-123458.jpgBut if you call yourself a Jew and rely on the law and boast in God and know his will and approve what is excellent, because you are instructed from the law; and if you are sure that you yourself are a guide to the blind, a light to those who are in darkness, an instructor of the foolish, a teacher of children, having in the law the embodiment of knowledge and truth— you then who teach others, do you not teach yourself? While you preach against stealing, do you steal? You who say that one must not commit adultery, do you commit adultery? You who abhor idols, do you rob temples? You who boast in the law dishonor God by breaking the law. For, as it is written, The name of God is blasphemed among the Gentiles because of you. For circumcision indeed is of value if you obey the law, but if you break the law, your circumcision becomes uncircumcision. So, if a man who is uncircumcised keeps the precepts of the law, will not his uncircumcision be regarded as circumcision? Then he who is physically uncircumcised but keeps the law will condemn you who have the written code and circumcision but break the law. For no one is a Jew who is merely one outwardly, nor is circumcision outward and physical. But a Jew is one inwardly, and circumcision is a matter of the heart, by the Spirit, not by the letter. His praise is not from man but from God. (Romans 2:17-29 ESV)

As Christians we wonder why the world looks at us with disdain. We wonder why they can not hear the wonderful message we have to give them. God is blasphemed among those who do not k ow Him because of us. We claim to know the law and follow the law, and we are seen doing things we are telling others not to do. We act one way at church and around our church friends and then when we go other places we act in ways we abhor and talk down about when we are worshipping. We forget though that God is always with us, and every time we step into public we are the hands and feet of Jesus so everything we do is giving some one an example of what God is like.

Paul tells the Romans that if you are circumcised and you act like the law doesn’t matter you are giving God a bad name. It is not about keeping the letter of the law, but living in a way that shows forth the love of God. Circumcision is not a physical thing, it is a matter of heart. We need to follow the love that God has given us and show that love to others.

Our praise should come from God which means that we are doing things that society will not like. We need to look at pleasing God, not ourselves or our neighbors. Live the life of a person who is called to called and circumcised in heart and shows God’s love to all the world!

Rules…

20130619-144418.jpgAnd many people came together in Jerusalem to keep the Feast of Unleavened Bread in the second month, a very great assembly. They set to work and removed the altars that were in Jerusalem, and all the altars for burning incense they took away and threw into the Kidron Valley. And they slaughtered the Passover lamb on the fourteenth day of the second month. And the priests and the Levites were ashamed, so that they consecrated themselves and brought burnt offerings into the house of the Lord. They took their accustomed posts according to the Law of Moses the man of God. The priests threw the blood that they received from the hand of the Levites. For there were many in the assembly who had not consecrated themselves. Therefore the Levites had to slaughter the Passover lamb for everyone who was not clean, to consecrate it to the Lord. For a majority of the people, many of them from Ephraim, Manasseh, Issachar, and Zebulun, had not cleansed themselves, yet they ate the Passover otherwise than as prescribed. For Hezekiah had prayed for them, saying, May the good Lord pardon everyone who sets his heart to seek God, the Lord, the God of his fathers, even though not according to the sanctuary’s rules of cleanness. And the Lord heard Hezekiah and healed the people. (2 Chronicles 30:13-20 ESV)

How many of you have rules for people attending worship at your congregation?

We all do. We have rules. Like “No Shoes, No Shirt, No Service.”

Ok we probably don’t have that on our doors like some other business do, but what if some showed up without shoes and shirt for worship? Would they be turned away? Would God turn them away?

There were many at the temple for the Feast of Unleavened Bread that were not clean according to the rules of the sanctuary. So Hezekiah prayed that the people would be made clean through their participation in the meal. Remind you of another meal we partake in?

Some of us remember when you had to declare your intention to partake of communion. We had to prepare our hearts and minds. So now we don’t do this, are we really ready? The truth of the matter is regardless of how we prepare ourselves we are not clean and not prepared to take the meal. God cleans us through the meal to be a part of His kingdom.

Rules are for man, not for God. God will work in-spite of our rules and whether or not we follow them.

So go and love freely as God has loved you and do not be hung up on the rules…

Out of the depths

20130618-102600.jpgOut of the depths I cry to you, O Lord ! O Lord, hear my voice! Let your ears be attentive to the voice of my pleas for mercy! If you, O Lord, should mark iniquities, O Lord, who could stand? But with you there is forgiveness, that you may be feared. I wait for the Lord, my soul waits, and in his word I hope; my soul waits for the Lord more than watchmen for the morning, more than watchmen for the morning. O Israel, hope in the Lord ! For with the Lord there is steadfast love, and with him is plentiful redemption. And he will redeem Israel from all his iniquities. (Psalms 130:1-8 ESV)

Have you ever cried out of the depths of despair to the Lord?

If we are honest with ourselves we will all say that we have been so low in life because things have not gone as we have planned. We have been let down by life, family, friends, circumstances are not right and we are lost in a dark deep hole.

And out of the depths we can cry. I have been seeking where God is leading me to be in His body and it has been elusive to say the least. Maybe I missed it, or maybe someone else missed it. It would be very easy for me to fall into deep despair, and crawl into a fetal position and cry out of the despair.

It is real easy for us to look at the situation we are in and see all the pain and hurt, the things that would draw us away for God. It is hard in the dark to see the light.

However I know what the psalmist tells us, that the Lord hears our cries. The Lord hears us when we cry out of the depths. Even when it seems we are all alone in our despair, He is always with us. He has placed people and events in our lives to help us focus on Him even when we want to focus on us.

So cry out of the depths to the Lord, and wait for Him. For He is good, and His mercy will endure forever!

How?

20130617-145659.jpgO foolish Galatians! Who has bewitched you? It was before your eyes that Jesus Christ was publicly portrayed as crucified. Let me ask you only this: Did you receive the Spirit by works of the law or by hearing with faith? Are you so foolish? Having begun by the Spirit, are you now being perfected by the flesh? Did you suffer so many things in vain—if indeed it was in vain? Does he who supplies the Spirit to you and works miracles among you do so by works of the law, or by hearing with faith— just as Abraham believed God, and it was counted to him as righteousness ? Know then that it is those of faith who are the sons of Abraham. And the Scripture, foreseeing that God would justify the Gentiles by faith, preached the gospel beforehand to Abraham, saying, In you shall all the nations be blessed. So then, those who are of faith are blessed along with Abraham, the man of faith. (Galatians 3:1-9 ESV)

What did you ever do to gain God’s favor?

Are we justified by works? Do we get into God’s good graces by doing anything?

The truth of the matter is there is nothing we can do to make ourselves right with God. We are only made right with God by the infusion of His spirit. And according to Martin Luther you can only come to believe in God because the Spirit moved in you and brought you to believe.

There is nothing we can do to get on the right side of God, but since the Spirit lives in you, you should live out the love He has given you. Live by faith and lavish in the gift God gave to you and show it to the world, so they might come to see the gift they have been given.

U2’s Bono interview about Christ

Dr. Robert Eshleman's avatarNo Apologizing

Okay….so I am always on the lookout for how celebrities describe their faith.  I find it interesting.  9 times out of 10 they end up creating a God that does not exist in the Bible.  Then along comes this excerpt from a book where Bono from U2 is being interviewed about his faith.  Actually the interview is from September 2010…but never the less it is an incredible read.  The following excerpt is from the poached egg and can be found at this link.

 

Bono: My understanding of the Scriptures has been made simple by the person of Christ. Christ teaches that God is love. What does that mean? What it means for me: a study of the life of Christ. Love here describes itself as a child born in straw poverty, the most vulnerable situation of all, without honor. I don’t let my religious world get too…

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Audacity

20130616-164914.jpgOne of the Pharisees asked Jesus to eat with him, and he went into the Pharisee’s house and took his place at the table. And a woman in the city, who was a sinner, having learned that he was eating in the Pharisee’s house, brought an alabaster jar of ointment. She stood behind him at his feet, weeping, and began to bathe his feet with her tears and to dry them with her hair. Then she continued kissing his feet and anointing them with the ointment. Now when the Pharisee who had invited him saw it, he said to himself, “If this man were a prophet, he would have known who and what kind of woman this is who is touching him that she is a sinner.” Jesus spoke up and said to him, “Simon, I have something to say to you.” “Teacher,” he replied, “Speak.” “A certain creditor had two debtors; one owed five hundred denarii, and the other fifty. When they could not pay, he canceled the debts for both of them. Now which of them will love him more?” Simon answered, “I suppose the one for whom he canceled the greater debt.” And Jesus said to him, “You have judged rightly.” Then turning toward the woman, he said to Simon, “Do you see this woman? I entered your house; you gave me no water for my feet, but she has bathed my feet with her tears and dried them with her hair. You gave me no kiss, but from the time I came in she has not stopped kissing my feet. You did not anoint my head with oil, but she has anointed my feet with ointment. Therefore, I tell you, her sins, which were many, have been forgiven; hence she has shown great love. But the one to whom little is forgiven, loves little.” Then he said to her, “Your sins are forgiven.” But those who were at the table with him began to say among themselves, “Who is this who even forgives sins?” And he said to the woman, “Your faith has saved you; go in peace.” (Luke 7:36-50 NRSV)

Have you ever been so moved by a gift that you would do anything to show the gratitude you feel for that gift?

In today’s gospel text we see a woman moved to audacious things of entering a gathering of men and then washing the feet of Jesus with her tears and then anointing Him. She was moved by what Jesus had already done for her.

You see I read from the story that Jesus met this woman before this dinner party. Jesus met her on the streets or someplace else. He knew who she was and where she had been and what she had done. And long before this dinner party, Jesus forgave her her sins. That is why she is audacious her to enter this gathering of men, not caring what anyone will say about her. She is filled with gratitude and love for what Jesus has given her. And Jesus tells her she is forgiven here, because the really great things we get are hard to believe, so she has to be told again that she is freed from her past to live in the futureGod has for her. Jesus freed her for. Her past and freed her in the future to be the child God created…

So have you been moved to audacious displays of love for what Jesus has done for you?

How have you shown the world the audacious love God has given you?

Remember you are the hands and feet of Jesus to show the world His love. Go and tell everyone what He has done for you.